Scarred, not scared !

“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.” 

Khalil Gibran

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08.08. Lionsgate. Time to be fully awake ! We are entering a NO FEAR zone !

Done with shedding tears and being in victim mode. No more signs of frustration, no more sighs of desperation ! No more worries and doubts : “Why not me ?” “What if I fail ?”

You have already walked courageously through the dark and look : you are OK. You are all fine ! You’ve made it !

It doesn’t matter if you are scarred,  you are not scared of yourself anymore. You have embraced the real you…the one you thought you would never find.

Lions are leaders and often walk a lonely path. They pave the way and show others what is possible. They focus on their inner strength, stand their own ground and face all the challenges they meet, always heading up high !

What is deep inside can’t be silenced ! Can you hear it ? Now express it fully !  Roar you warrior !

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BALANS IN SPORT & LEVEN !

If it’s a bit quiet on the Phuro! Be inspired! blog : stay tuned ! We are in full preparation for next soccer season in our homebase ! Belgium & The Netherlands : From now on children & adults can all enjoy the Dutch blogposts on our new website BALANS IN SPORT & LEVEN !

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“De wereld is om zeep, er gebeuren rare dingen rondom mij. Helemaal om zeep en het laatste oordeel kan niet ver meer zijn…”

Urbanus

De wereld uit balans

“De wereld is om zeep”, zingt Urbanus. Ik zou het anders formuleren : de wereld is uit balans, WIJ zijn uit balans. We leggen vaak onze focus op dingen die er niet toe doen en schuiven de verantwoordelijkheden van ons af of schuiven ze door naar elkaar.

Onze kinderen zijn uit balans. Onze kinderen verdrinken in een zee van illusies. Onze maatschappij leert hen om te focussen op de wereld rondom hen en om zich voortdurend af te meten aan anderen. Er is constant druk om te presteren, erbij te horen, gezien te worden of leuk gevonden te worden.

“1.202.040 Belgen slikten vorig jaar antidepressiva. Bijna 7,5 procent meer dan in 2015. Een hallucinant cijfer dat blijft stijgen. Meer en meer mensen…

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Me minus drama !

Although everyone is looking for happiness, the search is futile because what you are looking for exists already here now. You’ll be happy once you are living a life you don’t need to escape from !

What keeps you away from this ultimate freedom are your thoughts that you constantly project to past or future events, leaving you unhappy.

So you need distractions from life and as a way to cope with the sadness and pain you create all kind of diversions, but you are not really able to experience true happiness !

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Maybe you had a fabulous weekend and had fun with friends, but soon that monday morning feeling kicked in and you were sucked back into misery and meaninglessness.

Life is painful for many people and many suffer from mental health issues ! They’re not feeling good in their skin, even youngsters are already exhausted from life or feeling too apathetic to participate in life !

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Happiness to me is a state of being in the now, being fully present. Unbounded, non attached. It is ME MINUS DRAMA !

It is free from complaints and compliance to life’s situations that drag me in darkness and depression.

It is free from the pressure to perform and free from the pain of going against my grain so I don’t feel burned out or bored out anymore.

It is stripped off the belief that life is a struggle and a survival of the strongest !

It is consciously choosing how to react to life and interact with the people around me !

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When something goes wrong, are you going in the same direction ? Are you participating in negativity, adding fuel to the fire ?

Are you rather passive or apathetic towards what happens around you ? You don’t care, that’s their problem, whatever,…!

Or do you decide to be the observer and be present, completely balanced and centered, being able to choose the way that is non judgmental and feels good to all ?

WHO ARE YOU MINUS THE DRAMA ?

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Souls in distress

What if there were a book available to help you take the direction you truly desire in life or help you solve any kind of problem or life situation ?

What if there were a brilliant method to empower yourself and have a clear understanding of your inner nature ? Would you buy such a book or program ?

Maybe you did buy one of these thousands self-help books or online programs promising the end to all of your misery ! You were excited ! You read, took notes or highlighted certain phrases that were interesting. You even did the exercices that were recommended…

But after that promising start, you found out that your motivation was decreasing, you felt it wasn’t worth the try or you didn’t see the change you desired. You threw the book in a corner and picked up life as usual, until there was once again a new crisis or a new promising program online…

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What if there’s a helpful tool, completely free of charge offering simple solutions to all life’s challenges ? What if you can access it anywhere, anytime, anyplace you want ? What if you were born with it and this system exists within you ?

It is your emotional system ! The gps to navigate through life, the tools to cure your soul in distress are your e-motions ! The tools through which you balance yourself are your emotions.

Some are immediately expressed or brought to the surface, others are burried or hidden deep within your unconscious. All painful or unprocessed emotions are stored in your body !

Whenever you experience negative emotions, you are holding on to negative thoughts. The mental or physical pain you are feeling is YOUR effort to sustain your negative beliefs and thoughts ! Thoughts are creative and have immense power. You should always be watchful for what you think and believe !

Shouldn’t I analyse my thoughts then instead of my emotional state ? It’s impossible to investigate all your thoughts as we humans have 50.000 or 70.000 thoughts a day and we are not conscious of them all ! How do you know which one is the cause of your problems ?

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Whenever you FEEL bad, you are feeding yourself with untruths coming from your unconscious beliefs and thoughts and the words you are stating to yourself.

Are there negative feelings bubbling up ? Release these before they pile up in your mind and body, hiding who you really are underneath all that junk, causing un-ease or even dis-ease in your body.

Take a break for a few moments when you are feeling bad. Stop ! The only question you should ask yourself is : How am I feeling now ?

Feel where the un-ease is seated in your body and how it exactly feels ! Don’t think about the answer, just connect to your body and let your body speak !

Put your focus (mental imagery) on what you want instead of what you don’t want. Focus on things that feel good and keep your self-talk positive if you want to have a succesful result !

Start by being positive to yourself ! Only tune in to the good vibes ! Don’t let other people dictate how you feel ! Give off good vibrations and good things will follow !

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Governed by…

When you hear the word “to govern”, many of you will instantly think about our rulers, our governments or the people who have authority over us, the leaders of this world.

You might think about several other people, groups or organisations having power over us : the bankers, our employers, even our teachers and parents.

Other words will possibly flash into your mind aswell : possession, dominion, submission,…

Maybe you ask yourself : who governs who ? How can we be completely free ? Is that even possible ?

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We can add the words of our beloved Wayne Dyer to this William Penn’s quote : “These tyrants are often self imposed roadblocks of your lower self at work !”

Are we making decisions according to our animalistic and lower nature ? Are we making choises according to our emotional states ? You need to know that these two alone will build dangerous and unstable constructions !

When we keep our focus on resentment and retaliation or fear and anger, we will see it reflected back into our world. That’s why the ruling class likes to keep us trapped in fear and continues to hypnotize and brainwash us through media, politics, economics,…

External conditions can’t govern us, it’s our mental attitude that makes up all these restrictions preventing us from attaining long lasting happiness !

Power versus force

God gave us command to rule over the earth, the expectation was to do so in a way that reflected His character.

Instead of being submitted by all these man made doctrines, which are all a bunch of illusions we are forced to believe in, we have to reinstall our true power, the one that comes from within and that is available to all of us.

To put the real governor into his righteous place, we need to step a little higher and summon a more mighty power, the power of the heart, the place where the Christ resides !

Jesus said, “Behold, the kingdom of God is within you” (Luke 17:21). It is within this kingdom — the realm of our hearts — that Christ rules supreme over his people, guiding us, healing us and governing our lives and future.

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Surrender to kindness and spontaneity, bend to joy and curiosity and add a little gentleness and genuiness to this magical blend.

Remain loving all the time and be passionate. Create a mysterious fabric, a woven grid of love.

Let love be the authority to which you bow and be true to its power in the eternal now !

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As within, so without !

What you put out is what you get back ! As within, so without, it is as simple as that. What you get back from the universe is nothing but a reflection of your inner world !

It means that you are an active player and participator in life whether you like it or not. It gives you a huge responsability in life !

Are there things going on in your life right now, things you would really want to get rid off ?

You can only be affected by something or someone if you agree with it. Only by your agreement (unconscious or conscious) you can attract and experience it in your life.

I will give you a personal example that will show you how important our regular and repetitive thoughts, words and emotions are. A while ago I was wondering why we – as a family unit – couldn’t manifest more money to do the things we really wanted.

The moment extra money came in, the car or the laundry machine broke down, making the repair a priority… Or the moment we saved enough money to do something special, the money got stolen or a bill came in for the same amount.

We were both desperate ! What was happening ? My partner said : “Why can’t it be easy ? I want us to have a normal family life. I don’t even ask for anything special or out of the ordinary, I just want us to be happy together…”

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Then I replied : “I know how you are feeling, I feel exactely the same way darling, I hope our money issues don’t burden our relationship too much, all I care about is our love, money can be stolen from me !”

It dawned on me that the universe had given us exactely what we wanted, it simply affirmed all of our statements and said a big YES to it !

Money isn’t important, it can be stolen from me…”Aye aye sir!”, “Roger that”, the universe answered and the money got up in smoke…

This was the obstruction to our abundance, this was the king-pin to deal with !

You can create your paradise on earth, it is completely in your hands, it is completely up to you. Nothing else controls you. Nothing else can ! Nothing else has the power to !

The universe doesn’t say that you are wrong or right, you do ! The universe doesn’t say that you are good or bad, you do ! The universe doesn’t judge, you are the judge !

The universe always supports you in anything that you do and always gives you what you’re asking for.

As above, so below ! As within so without !

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Rebirth !

We all tend to highlight big changes in our life and share our moments of glory and grief with our loved ones. We celebrate endings and new beginnings. We bring out a toast to the new born and the just married. We raise our glasses to the death and the divorced…

Now imagine : you’ve invited your family and friends for a drink…No one really knows the reason why you are throwing this party or what kind of news you are about to tell them…

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But at a given moment you demand their attention and state :

“I have a confession to make…” All eyes on you off course…

“I’ve been deceiving all of you for quite a while now….” The curiosity of your public raises…

“All these years I pretented to be someone I wasn’t and I covered myself up to meet all your needs and expectations…” Rumors all over the place….

The guessing has started…A friend shouts : “Don’t tell ! I know ! You are coming out !”

You (kind of) ignore the tumult. You bring your audience back to silence, raise your glass and you continue your speech :

“Today I would like to bring out a toast to life ! Real life ! I mean : Life as it was meant to be. Today I invite all of you to celebrate the birth of a new me.”

Auntie Claudia already gives you that look as if you’re coming from Mars. Some of your cousins start quarreling : “What the hell is she talking about ?”

Uncle Bill displays his wisdom : “Have you lost your mind, girl ?”

“Well, uncle Bill now that you come up with it. It actually feels quite liberating !”

Some have lost their tongues, unable to speak ; all they can do is stare at you…

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Courageously you continue :

“It means that I am putting an end to my self-inflicted pain and I now choose to go pain-free. I no longer sustain the belief in my negative thoughts. They can no longer count on my participation, I let them go and choose truth instead.”

“It means I am stripping off the lies that I have been told and I no longer resist or deny my own creative powers. I no longer put effort in things that cause me to move away from my essence, leaving me in pain.”

“It means that today I choose life instead of death and I clear my perception of anything that is less than perfect. I now transcend the long time trauma inflicted on me.”

It means I am completely free from the shackles of the past and choose to live in the eternal now !”

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When two become one

If you are already in a relationship with your soulmate or twin flame, what I am about to write will sound very familiar.

You are literally dealing with your other half, it’s a magical match made in heaven a long time ago !

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It creates a powerful unit when twins reunite. ‘One and one equals two’ isn’t the correct answer ! When these two are added the result is exponentially more ! What is bound in heaven isn’t added but multiplied, to the power of the 144,000 !

They carry the Divine blueprint of creation and remember their soul essence and power when they merge. Together they radiate a powerful energy, Love is amplified and unified as One.

“Love is the glue that holds this universe together.”

A powerful magnetic pull

They can be separate for long but they are destined to find each other. And when they do, they become inseparable, you can’t have one without the other…

They are drawn to each other like glue, there’s a constant magnetism between them. The further they are removed from each other, the more painful the separation feels. It’s like a rubber stretched to its limits : it creates a lot of tension !

Telepathic connection

Although apart, there is always a telepathic connection between them and they usually sense when there is something wrong with their twin or when the other needs assistance.

Both can have very vivid and prophetic dreams or even share or remember dreams about their past and future together.

A sensitive liaison

No need to lie about their whereabouts, they both sense when their partner isn’t truthful. These issues usually pass very quickly as there is no need to hide anything in this relationship. No need to put a mask on ! They both see through inauthenticity…

 

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Yin-yang

They are yin and yang, light and shadow, male and female, they are each other’s poles. They complement and complete one another. He is the light in her dark, she is the light in his dark.

This constant push-pull creates a tumultuous and complex relationship. They push each other’s buttons several times because of the mirroring between them. They usually have important shadow work to do ! There is a lot to be played out as they trigger each other’s fears and angers.

Together they can transmute an enormous amount of old energies which effect ripples through to the collective for the benefit of all.

“If your path is more difficult, it is because of your high calling.”

Challenges and tests

They can go through many challenges : their faith and strength can be tested to the maximum, they can experience hardship in various areas of their life.

When one finds him/herself experiencing a tough time or going through a particular transition, their twin is often there to support, guide or protect them. Whenever one of them falls in the trap of self-pity or blame, the other will sustain the Higher vision instead of instantly gratifying their partner’s emotions.

They can help one another rise above issues they normally wouldn’t be able to solve all by themselves.

They lift the other one up when they are down. When they are doubtful, they remind their partner of their divinity….It’s definitely Divine intervention !

Destined to meet

They might have met each other before or might have known each other in other lifetimes. They might unknowingly or unconsciously have already been close to each other !

They may live in each other’s neighbourhood for years, having any knowledge of each other’s existence or they may find their twin in another corner of the world !

They could have met by accident, in an unusual way, it was a coincidence !

Catalyst for growth

They both fulfill the role of teacher and student as they learn from each other, they help each other grow spiritually or assist in the awakening process of their partner.

They are benefitted by their bond : they need each other to sustain the higher vision they both share or need assistance from their partner to complete a particular mission.

They are each other’s catalyst for growth. Although they won’t immediately give you what you want, they will give you exactly what you need !

Attachment and non attachment

They don’t try to change one another. They can be free and bonded at the same time, the relationship doesn’t feel restrictive ! It feels safe and comforting but isn’t suffocating.

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A Big Bang !

You all know what happens when two stars collide : there is a big explosion ! When God made its creation, male and female were separated and moved away from each other, but since the magnetism is still there, they feel incomplete and they long to unify and become one once again…

Once you’ve met your twin, your world will be shaken : There has been a sacred love explosion, a Big Bang !

No matter what sex means to you right now : a play, a power game, a love connection or just something physical… Keep in mind that it is a powerful exchange of energy and it can eighter be destructive or constructive depending on the intent both partners have during sexual intercourse.

Twin flames work towards balance in their relationship : sex isn’t the usual power game anymore, it is a sacred union. They feel their oneness ! They don’t feel guilty about their sexual appetite as this kind of passionate madness is normal in a twin relationship !

Pitfalls

The mind minds

Pitfalls and booby traps usually come from the ego, it is again the mind that minds and causes to question the relationship. It can bring up all kinds of excuses why it shouldn’t be : the partner is too young or too old, it feels ‘too good to be true’ or ‘not meant to be’. The heart feelings are denied because of fears and resistance.

Energy vampirism & psychic attacks

They are prone to energy vampires because of their magnetic vibration. Be aware of those who literally can’t stand the light ! They will try to pull you down or pull you away from each other by spreading lies or by despising your relationship. Even close family members can be totally against the relationship.

People sense there is “something” about twin flames and have the tendency to oppose that which they can’t grasp or understand !

And if you would ask me how a twin relationship feels, my answer would be this :

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Let go, let God

“Growth is only letting go of the concepts of lack and limitation or, on the positive side, going within and seeing this unlimited being that we are and choosing to remain as such.”

Lester Levenson

A lot of people are anxious to let go of their attachements and suppressed emotions. They wonder what will be left of them once they have released these things.

“Will I lose my identity ? Will I be unrecognisable to myself ? Will I get senseless ? Will I become unable to experience the wonders of life ? They again fear…the unknown.

It is a remembrance however. The thousands years of ignorance made us all fall in deep sleep and amnesia. We completely forgot who we are.

All the identities you created in order to properly function in this world aren’t who you truly are. You believe that they are you, but they are just holding a veil in front of the real you. You are feeling restless because you drove far off from your own beingness.

Trying to get rid of your negativity and problems is struggling with them and sustaining them. The only way you can get rid off them is by not holding on to them.

You still hold the mental image in mind of the things you don’t want instead of what you desire. You are still thinking in terms of limitation and bounderies.

 

Let go of what keeps you trapped in a vicious negative cycle, strip off layer by layer until all the weight and illusions are gone.

What is left when you strip off all these impostors is your Beingness and it has more to offer than all the things you are so desperately trying to sustain or cling on to.

You will gradually see glimpses of who you are, what you came here to do and where you came from. As you remember who you are, you exponentially grow.

True feelings will arise again because they will come from source, straight from the heart, where judgement is non existent and only truth is seen and experienced.

In order to let go of what troubles us, we don’t necessarely have to dig deep in our subconscious. We would only involve our thinking too much, leaving us doubting more and even creating more drama in our life.

Letting go is easy and simple but it can look hard because of all our past habits. Just let go and let God restore everything to perfection. Return to the stillness of your being and surrender to that higher power.

You are an infinite being able to accomplish anything ! Just don’t mind the mind and the mind won’t need minding !

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The sea of Love

“Love sets you free – not thinking”

When we feel separated from Source, we start being weary or feel uncomfortable in our skin. We are out of alignment and need to restore the balance.

The more we are disconnected from our heart, the harder this separation feels and symptoms of discouragement, disease and depression usually follow. You start to carry attachments with you.

Instead of swimming in the ocean you are sinking to the bottom where it is all dark and muddy. Untill you see a light above that catches your attention. You are curious about it but in order to rise higher you have to leave the weight of the past behind…

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Fish live in water and can’t be separated from it as it is their lifeforce ! We humans can’t be separated from Love ! In Love we live, move and have our being !

In Love we are in full command and power. As we love unconditionally, we have the complete ocean of cosmic Love with us. It is the essence of our being !

“Come with me, my love. To the sea. The sea of Love. I want to tell you how much I love you.”

What if this song isn’t just a love song from one person to another but an exclusive message for you from the universe ?

What if it is an expression of its love for you or an invitation to return home to Source where the drop unifies with the ocean again and no longer feels separated.

You surrendered and found yourself immersed in a sea of Love !

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