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Masters in manipulation…

I admit my cats are spoiled ! They are treated like royalty and are given the best high quality food you can imagine, cutting my budget seriously when you know I have seven exigent pieces running in the house…

Not to mention the horrible moment I run out of food on sunday and that I’m obliged to buy a cheap product in the local foodstore which they literally hate and despise !

It starts the moment I want to refill their foodbowl or when they spot the box or bag of food I am carrying. “Oh nooo…Not that filthy taste again !!”

Then they all plot together : Gibbs, the leader of the mission (I shouldn’t have watched that much NCIS) is once again ruling and giving orders : “Keep going guys, keep asking her the good stuff, come on ! Keep interrogating her until she succumbs, she has to ! Semper Fi !”

They all have different manners to beg for food. Louise tries to hypnotize me, statue like, only her eyes move with every move I make…Modjo makes watching television or reading subtitles impossible !

James makes any of my actions futile : He tries to make me stumble or jumps on my shoulders…He claims the computer or starts grooming himself in front of or on any device I urgently need…

Bolleke quietly begs for food while Lulu makes a penetrating noise as if I have been ignoring her for weeks.

Sweetheart and Gibbs are the firestarters ! They feel so frustrated when their needs aren’t properly met that they start bullying each other, hissing and howling, chasing each other, causing havoc in the house.

Stalking, staring, yowling, ambushing, swatting and preventing acces to several places…All methods are legit !

They made their point and I am defeated. In the end they always get their way. They know how weak I am when it comes to cats…

I also feed a stray cat (one who has been abandoned by her family) and she is very clever too, she notices the difference in food aswell.

Two weeks ago a cat had been hit by a car in our street. The driver didn’t stop and several cars had to avoid the dead body on the road.

It was a beautiful grey long haired cat, like the one in the picture above. We decided to move the body to a save place. The closest spot possible was our neighbour’s front garden.

No one in our neighbourhood knew who the owners were, so a few days later – the body was already covered with snow – I decided to bury her in my garden, just in front of my angel statues. I felt relieved because I gave the animal a proper funeral. I felt “she” could finally rest in peace !

I went to my front door a couple of minutes later to feed our regular stray cat, only to find a new stranger standing in front of me, all dirty and hungry….

Well, here we go again…I guess I’m registered as human servant in the spirit world of cats…

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The Blue Ray family !

“I intend to live forever, or die trying.”

Groucho Marx

Do you sometimes feel like you have been walking this earth for ages…wondering when this will finally be over ? You want to return “home” and that things get back to “normal” !

Do you feel a stranger within your own family or amongst friends and do you feel more connected to children, animals and nature ?

Are you an empath ? An emotional sponge ? Are you able to feel everything to the core of your being ?

Are you sensitive to the energies around you ? Do you know stuff without knowing how you know them ? Are you an intuitive ?

Do you often feel worn out because of all the energies around ? Tired of all the negativity and exhausted from finding ways to transform it ?

Do you often feel the need to withdraw in silence and solitude, far away from the drama and noice of everyday life ?

Do you feel the need to express yourself one way or another ? Do you have an ability or talent you hide from others ?

Have you experienced difficulties expressing yourself to others because you are constantly trying to figure out how to make yourself understandable ?

And this might be a strange question : Did you ever wonder why you seem to leave a trail of destruction behind, everywhere you go…?

Then welcome to the Blue Ray family !

Yes some of us might feel stuck in this dimension or feel that we were obliged to hide for too long !

Some might feel our actions have been useless so far, but we can’t diminish the important work we have done behind the scenes…

You have opened the path ! You are a trailblazer ! You carry the divine blueprint within you and you are impatiently waiting to restore it for all beings on earth !

We don’t have hidden agendas and egotistical needs. We just expose injustices and cruel deeds ! We are not able to spread lies ! We tell it like it is !

Allthough we do not literally blow up stuff, we come with this fire that makes all ugliness rise to the surface ! That’s the reason why archaic and patriarchal structures tremble in our presence…We just scare the shit out of them !

We are not afraid of death ; we accept it as an integral part of life…Live free or die trying !

If this might resonate with you then I have one thing to say : I know you are used to hide but I invite you to … come out, come out, wherever you are !

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Video by Steve Nobel

Passionate beings

I love the music of Armin Van Buuren, a world famous DJ who happens to live in my neighbouring country The Netherlands. I like his trance just as much as the more commercial stuff and his remixes of old school classics.

Now you have to believe me when I say I am an excellent people spotter…No hiding for me ! Whether with or without make up or with or without masquerades : I will always expose you !

It doesn’t matter if we have met already several times or just once…I will recognize you…Even if we were to meet each other ten years from now, I would still remember who you are.

Sometimes showing me a photograph is enough…I’m hypersensitive and an image thinker…no further explanations necessary 🙂

Armin recently posted a vlog where he went back to his roots. He was visiting the small village in the Netherlands he grew up in. I was thinking “if he would walk by me and greet me today, I probably wouldn’t be able to recognize him ! He’s just a normal, average looking human being…like you and me…

But once you put that man in front of thousands of people he suddenly metamorphoses in another entity, someone who enjoys doing what he is doing, someone who shares his passion with the world.

I am often struck by his genuine smile on stage and the way he motivates people to join the fun, sometimes even sharing tears with the crowd aswell…

In his authentic expression, he spreads a contagious and inspiring energy that radiates through all the people present.

Another example : Oscar Colombie (Oscar and the Wolf). What an appearance on stage ! He admits he is a rather shy boy but whenever he’s on stage “something” takes over, a higher version of himself. Once he’s performing he is able to sweep his insecurities away and to hypnotize an whole audience !

Whoever you pass by on the street today, it could be a young person or an older one, looking average, down to earth…An unshaved man wearing a slobby sweater, a girl without make up showing her raw beauty…

Know that passion and genuineness can be burried deep within, behind their mask.

Just as with you. You might think you are just an average man or woman with an average life, while you just failed to see the genius in you or forgot how to access it…

What are you passionate about ? Music, art, science, writing, sports, a certain cause,…Find your passion and follow it !!!

This fire is within you for a reason : to inspire you to become a bigger version of yourself and to inspire others to do the same !

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Beyond…

Inner peace can’t be bought canned or in a box.

Spirit can’t be sprayed as a perfume just when you want to be at your best.

There is no magic pill that can cure you of the pain of going against your grain.

How do you blow “animo” back in life then ?

You go beyond. Beyond the human eye.

You have to look beyond every illusion to see what is really going on.

You have to move beyond every judgement to understand what “being human” truly is.

Beyond all divisions of humanity that separate humans and keep them from unity.

Go beyond to become a whole human again.

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More than fun !

I am looking forward to next sunday as Reflex goalkeepers school, where I volunteer as mental coach have their season’s celebration !

Their last practise of the season is finished in style : the kids receive their certificate, often in presence of a well known soccer player and everyone is treated to a delicious bbq !

My reward for the kids is as usual play ! Spring time is “Phuro bubbles” time and excellent time to get the kids out of their heads and back in play mode !

Why are these large inflatable balls helpful and useful in coaching…?

The fun factor !

There is nothing more motivating than to have fun in sports ! It really isn’t all about seriousness and performances all the time…Keep it balanced and avoid too much pressure.

Besides the hard work you already put in your practises, you have to be able to blow off steam regularly…

Bubble soccer seems scary at first but once you find out you really can’t hurt yourself, you can loosen up and have fun ! Then the giggling and screaming usually starts…

Isn’t it wonderful to see happy faces ?

A physical challenge !

Playing bubble soccer is a physical challenge ! Luckily the players are in good shape ! The parents are often curious and excited to try it out aswell, but many of them admit, they wake up the next morning having muscle pain all over their bodies !

Ten minutes to the max and everyone is out of air and thursty as hell ! It is very important to hydrate regularly when you’re playing !

Upside down !

Mental coaching is learning kids how to focus again. It often means putting things “upside down”, putting things back in perspective, creating a different outlook on things !

A mental challenge

Besides physical strength the right mental attitude is necessary to be more resilient to vicious tackles !

Visualisations

As you know famous soccer players like to use visualisations before playing an important game. In bubble soccer the inflatable bubble is your protective suit.

If during a soccer game you have the tendency to shy away from the ball, you can create a imaginative protective shield around you just the size of the bubble ball.

Keep your self-talk positive : It’s your ball, you are going to take it !

Positive thoughts and emotions

To feel strong and to be strong you have to keep your thoughts positive ! You can use AK (Applied kinesiology) to see what effect your thoughts have on your body feeling and strength.

Negative thoughts and emotions will weaken your body, the positive ones will strengthen them. Keep that in mind when you tackle someone…The angry one isn’t always the strongest ! Who’s going to be the last man standing….?

Our energy field

The bubble ball can be likened to your own natural energy field. Every living being (even our planet) has this energy field around its body. These fields can influence each other and are able to communicate with each other ! This isn’t about communication through language but through vibrations. Read more : We are electromagnetic beings

Still believe learning new things can’t be fun ?

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Into the light

“May the flowers remind us why the rain was so necessary.”

Xan Oku

Awakening isn’t about surfing on pink clouds. Awakening is a process of destruction, it is beyond blue. It is a storm that makes you go adrift for a while, not just a breeze passing by…

It is a peeling away of many layers…Ugliness unfolded, many lies exposed…

It is stepping out of an illusion and stepping back to source.

It is stepping through debris of the old and stepping forward, forwarding another vision…

It is stepping up to a higher place and stepping into a new dimension, into a new world !

Awakening is a process of transformation, of remembering who we really are.

What were once tears of sadness become tears of joy, hope and renewal as we are washing away the old…

What were once drops of hate, resentment and guilt become a beautiful shower of love and compassion for all.

The rain showers the flowers, the sun lights us all up from above and the wind blows a new animo…

Look deep in nature and find the answers you seek, look deep within your own nature and see that everything is connected.

“It is the light that urges the flower to open up its heart to the world.”

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I am that I am

Some say God doesn’t exist ! Their argument is that the world is a miserable place, a lot of people are suffering or in pain, there is still misery, poverty and war.

“If there were a God, he wouldn’t let all of this happen !”

Some doubt…They feel there is something more to life, but they can’t fully grasp it, they get easily distracted by what is happening around them. They lack faith, they are not confident enough. They only pray in time of need. As a cry for help.

“If there’s a God then please let him be merciful…”

We seem to have lost the way, we seem to have forgotten that we are our own judge and jury. Things got “out of hand” when we started judging ourselves and others, we started to see life as a competition, as a play with numbers…

To count or not to count

We give each other scores and grades, points and numbers ! We compare and compete and are gradually deducting ourselves, giving away points or losing them along the way.

“That’s a three overthere, pretending he’s reading a book and look you would barely notice it but there is a one, hidden behind a tree. A ten is proudly walking around, several numbers following his ass. And there you got a bunch of sevens, all clinging together,..”

What is your rating ? How do you rate yourself ? If you often feel invisible or excluded and you feel lonely, I’ll bet you are pulling the shortest straw ! And you tell yourself that…

You don’t count !

We were told that we were a good for nothing type ; we were told that we didn’t really matter or that we weren’t talented enough !

We feel victimized : “He has done that to me, “It’s not fair !” We seek revenge.

Each time we believe we can be invalidated or devaluated, each time we believe we are something less then who we truly are, we are giving our power away…

There’s no need to count numbers in divine mind

We are already completely loved and accepted by our creator. The gift of his love is our free will. We are able to chose who we want to be.

The meaning of the Hebrew name YHWH, God’s name is “the Self-existent,” “He who becometh,” or “the becoming one.”

“The day we really believe it and are bold enough to walk in that Name, there will be peace in the world. If we turn on the outside to an external God, there will be war in the world. For you have denied me and when you deny the real God there is confusion and conflict in the world.”

Neville Goddard

We are disgracing our Name, each time something negative follows “I AM” . Negative statements deduct and contract. Everything positive that follows “I AM” is multiplied, expansive and constructive !

Who do you say I am ?

“I AM THAT I AM”

“I will be what I will be”

“I will become whatsoever I may become.”

No external force necessary.

The kingdom is within !

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A little horsepower

“In the beginning was the word and the word was love and love was imagination. When love takes us through the sun-dappled garden of our imagination, no stalking horses can perturb the rainbow in our mind or fade out its bright colors reflecting in the blue sky of our memory.”

Erik Pevernagie

“My dreams are tied to a horse that will never tire.”

“A horse already knows who he is, do you know who you are ?”

“Ride the horse in the direction it is going.”

“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”

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Summoning a dragon

This is the story about a boy and his pets, a tiger and a snake. Pets the boy already had since birth, but that he was obliged to separate !

They couldn’t get along, they couldn’t stand each other ! Even being in the same room was painful, so he had them moved, the one far away from the other.

One lived in the eastern side of the castle, the other in the west. The boy had to walk miles each day to feed them and to have a small talk at best !

Snake and tiger often talked bad about each other ! They always gossiped or were trying to belittle one another.

One day the boy had enough of it, he became sick of all their quarrels and fights ! He couldn’t stand their hate anymore, he just wanted to play and laugh !

That day he decided to visit neither tiger nor snake ! A message was send to both, telling the boy’s health was at stake !

The tiger started nervously walking back and forth on his isle.

“Snakes are sneaky snails !” the tiger said resentfully ! “Snake must have seduced the boy to keep him away from me !”

“She is probably up to no good”, the tiger thought, stroking his beard. “Maybe she’ll try to suffocate the boy !” He became furious and feared…

“The boy is in danger ! It is time for a fight ! I’ll be knocking at the snake’s door and I’ll kill her tonight !

The snake was rising in suspicion and thought about a plan to murder the tiger too.

“That tiger must think he is smart, believing he can keep me and the boy forever apart ! I’ll teach him a ssserious lesson sssoon, tonight I sssneak out and kill him at full moon”.

Both animals went on a mission to claim back their rightful position !

That night was a thriller, they both met each other somewhere in the middle… There they were… ready for a fight, angry looks on their face, each showing their might !

They were about to grab one another’s head, when they heard a cough coming out of a bed. They stopped their fight and looked dazzled. Next to their battle seemed to be the room where the boy was settled.

They decided to pause a while the fight, just to have a quick look at the boy and then end this matter once and for all tonight !

The boy opened his eyes and was amazed to see them both standing at his bed, they were holding his hands and praying God to restore his health.

The boy felt instantly better and gave a hug to both !

“Seeing you together as friends makes my heart full of joy ! You made my dream come true. This is a miracle !”, shouted the boy !”

Tiger and snake were now full of remorse, impressed by the boy’s precious love and incredible force.

The night the boy’s animals reconciled, a king was born with a dragon by his side !

Make the magic happen and become a dragon…

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How to win friends

The How to Win Friends IQ Matrix summarizes the classic book “How to Win Friends and Influence People” written by Dale Carnegie. It helps to unlock ideas that will allow you to influence other people’s decisions, actions and behavior.

The article provides suggestions on how to influence people; pinpoints ways to make people like you, outlines techniques to win people over to your way of thinking, and much more. Read the full article : How to win friends and influence people

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